She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. She won't marry you. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. Pin It on Pinterest.
But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. I understand the sacrifice that it takes to become a doctor, but I am not sure if he does. I thought she would grow out of it. A good man is not defined by his religion and a great marriage is not defined by where it takes place. Of course I feel slighted at times, but I check myself and remember that my SO is doing his best given all his demands. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. My current atheism bothers him a little but as long as we respect each other it's fine. Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her.
I know the majority of them are great, but there are so many who are like vultures and will latch on to any male doctor like he is theirs. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. As a matter of fact, you can begin here. We are alone for many months at a time. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. Let's talk about kids. Courses were developed especially for physicians by business health experts and experienced physicians. I ask myself that every day. Should one belief system or lack of one take priority and why.
Sure it's lonely and hard work being a "single parent". Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain. Don't have any support as family is too far away and we're always on the move. They are taught to refrain from smoking, drinking, or experimenting with drugs. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in.