Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. You are a good person and she can see that. We have been together for around three years and I feel like now more than ever he expects me to just do things his way and not have an opinion.
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It had nothing to do with our relationship and so much to do with the pressures and demands of his work. My partner finishes her training in five years and she has expressed a strong desire to have children then. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. Your man is becoming a doctor, and while he's still a resident carving his way into the field, his off days will be few and far between. He's not home much and his hours are crazy but, wow, I am one happy woman.
It does kick your butt!. If she can't or won't consider that the church is a lie, you need to move on because this relationship can't go anywhere. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. I have a better and fuller relationship with God because my own practice has been supplemented by additional observance. While my husband is not a doctor he does have a job that requires very odd hours a-typical of the American and works all holidays. My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. Richard often laments that if he had taken a tech job, he would have been able to actually make a damn good salary for the last 8 years instead of going into debt with med school and making zero money. And some of them are selfish and fully aware that as a doctor they can pull in hot females, many of whom will put up with being treated poorly.
Toxic is the right word. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. These girls are nervous around non-Mormons. No one knows your situation the way you do. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. Perhaps I will have to start one.